It is hard not to have a fight in front of Hazel at home. Especially, we all like to speak emotionaly in rude manner.
Last night, fred and i had a fight on the bed right before sleeping. And the worse is fred like to leave the anger on the bed with no happy ending. Of couse, hazel can feel it and also is pushed to sleep in such horrible atmosphere.
Another day mornning, hazel told me "daddy is not nice 壞壞！“ She actually keeps the thing (parents' fight) in mind.
It is not fare for her living in the shadow of bad family atmosphere and not sure if this would leave any bad influence in her future.
Thursday, January 31, 2008
Talking Like An Adult
Last night, nanny told me she was surprising hearding hazel said "I had the milk already"我 (已經) 喝過牛奶了. She thought I taught her saying so. Actually, i have never taught hazel to speak anything but she really learn from us every minutes.
At the recent weeks, hazel stars like to ask us "what is that" 那是什麼？（之前是說“西嚮“-台語的是什麼？）
Moreover, she would ask me "what is that" from you answer. It makes the conversation like forever. Such as , she would ask me "what is that". I answer her nicely "that is xxx". THEN~ She would ask me "what is xxx?". I would try to answer her till i lose my patient and saying "I don't know". But !! It is not educated! Hazel would copy my answer and say to me "i don't know" more and more now.
Then , i realize it is not good to educate her to be no patient and no motivation in learning.
At the recent weeks, hazel stars like to ask us "what is that" 那是什麼？（之前是說“西嚮“-台語的是什麼？）
Moreover, she would ask me "what is that" from you answer. It makes the conversation like forever. Such as , she would ask me "what is that". I answer her nicely "that is xxx". THEN~ She would ask me "what is xxx?". I would try to answer her till i lose my patient and saying "I don't know". But !! It is not educated! Hazel would copy my answer and say to me "i don't know" more and more now.
Then , i realize it is not good to educate her to be no patient and no motivation in learning.
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Contradictory Age TWO!!
Reading form the book "Your 2 Yrs Old Baby", it mentions kid can not really decide what they want. For example, they would say they want A then say they don't want it.
The situation is vary obvisous on Hazel. She would ask me giving her somting then say " NO~". It is really making me headache.
Such as , I asked her going to class and she said she not like to go. After a while , she would tell me she want to go to the class when the class is ended already.
She is learning a lots from us or who i don't know. This morning, she told me giving her the milk. I kept on asking her if she really want to have the milk but she answer me "what ever隨便～".
What!!!!
Where does she learn that from?
Now, we all need to watch out what we behaved at the time she learns her behavior.
The situation is vary obvisous on Hazel. She would ask me giving her somting then say " NO~". It is really making me headache.
Such as , I asked her going to class and she said she not like to go. After a while , she would tell me she want to go to the class when the class is ended already.
She is learning a lots from us or who i don't know. This morning, she told me giving her the milk. I kept on asking her if she really want to have the milk but she answer me "what ever隨便～".
What!!!!
Where does she learn that from?
Now, we all need to watch out what we behaved at the time she learns her behavior.
Mommy need some luck!
These days i had been in bad luck. Starting from last friday.
Taking hazel out to pick up some saloon products for the grandma in cab for nothing. Then, I broke up the heating cook by droping bowl on it.
Just thinking it is one bad day. However, I lost hazel's red envelop from the nanny and we both step on "shit" on the way home.
OMG~ What is the end!
Taking hazel out to pick up some saloon products for the grandma in cab for nothing. Then, I broke up the heating cook by droping bowl on it.
Just thinking it is one bad day. However, I lost hazel's red envelop from the nanny and we both step on "shit" on the way home.
OMG~ What is the end!
Friday, January 25, 2008
New Year Coming~
As the new year coming, i decide not sending Hazel to the nanny (starting from Feburary). Hazel is quite grown up and not like going out. She would tell me that she not like to go to the nanny's place. And she woke up late, it is kind of difficult to ask her out in the early morning after waking up few minutes.
Moreover or actually, i feel like to earn the nanny's charge myself !!
Tuesday, January 08, 2008
2y5m Old Logic Question
Last night on the bed, fred asked Hazel "would you like to have younger sister or brother?"要妹妹還是弟弟？
Hazel said "None." 都不要！
We are surprised for her answer because we seldom said None this word.
She should have some logic thinking to be able to answer this way.
Surprise ! Surprise ! Surprise!
She is getting more and more not like to go to the nanny. I wonder if she feel less attention from the nanny because the nanny has taken care of a 1 months old baby. And more, she feel not like to have a baby around as this experience.
Monday, January 07, 2008
廬山&清境農場
才剛上山hazel就說要“回家～“...因為她會暈車！！！！！！
Not many pictures at LuSan because we arrived there late and left to ChinGen Fram early at the another day.
And , we were all not vary impressed by the hotel and liked to leave soon.
Also, it was so cold in the mountain that i forgot taking pictures.
Wednesday, January 02, 2008
當我們病在ㄧ起
Not really enjoy the trip in Hwua-Lien because i try not to get too close to fred and hazel. The most important thing is hazel not getting any cold. 諺語；小孩生病,大人不好過～
Everthing seems to great that hazel not feel bad after the trip with me. However, hazel's uncle takes her out and another day.....they both got sick.
It is bad that my cold is not totally recovered and i have to take care of her.
So.......You can never and ever not to be more careful~
Everthing seems to great that hazel not feel bad after the trip with me. However, hazel's uncle takes her out and another day.....they both got sick.
It is bad that my cold is not totally recovered and i have to take care of her.
So.......You can never and ever not to be more careful~
Saturday, December 29, 2007
拔拔, 你不行啦～
Recently, i would hear hazel saying "拔拔, 你不行啦～" to her daddy.
Allowed by fred, I have the quiz for you as the following;
Why hazel would have this conversation with her daddy?
1.) Hazel is possible to have younger sister or brother? Then, she said "拔拔, 你不行啦～"
2.) Hazel's dad grap hazel not letting her go. Then, she said "拔拔, 你不行啦～"
3.) Hazel's dad takes food or toy away from hazel. Then, she said "拔拔, 你不行啦～"
Allowed by fred, I have the quiz for you as the following;
Why hazel would have this conversation with her daddy?
1.) Hazel is possible to have younger sister or brother? Then, she said "拔拔, 你不行啦～"
2.) Hazel's dad grap hazel not letting her go. Then, she said "拔拔, 你不行啦～"
3.) Hazel's dad takes food or toy away from hazel. Then, she said "拔拔, 你不行啦～"
Hwua-Lien Trip 3d2nite
The vaction is more like my 養病之旅. I got cold one day beofore leaving to the Hwa-Lien. Hazel had been with her daddy more than me , and i even not sleep with them to avoid hazel getting the cold from me.
The hotel is beautiful and confortable. Everytime i went to Hwa-Lein with fred, we woulb bump into my friends. This time we met Joey and honda at the breakfast.
Starting to do posing~
Hazel is like to walk but crying for holding up!
Hazel plays around the lobby waiting for the tranport van to the train station. She look down as shying when someone looks at her.
On the train back to Taipei~
Playing her pillow on the head.
The hotel is beautiful and confortable. Everytime i went to Hwa-Lein with fred, we woulb bump into my friends. This time we met Joey and honda at the breakfast.
Starting to do posing~
Hazel is like to walk but crying for holding up!
Hazel plays around the lobby waiting for the tranport van to the train station. She look down as shying when someone looks at her.
On the train back to Taipei~
Playing her pillow on the head.
Sunday, December 23, 2007
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Time to Learn Aikido
打不還手？
Hazel is playing in the park. When she sing , there is a little boy would hit her on her face. According to the boy's grandma,the boy not like hazel to sing. Not because they are far on the slide, I would block the boy's hand before hitting on hazel's face.
She is too nice that not even crying or hitting back.
After we are home, I keep on teaching her to push away other's hand as avoiding hitting from others.
Then, i just realize how nice if she can know some aikido. Not attacking others but protecting herself!
Hazel is playing in the park. When she sing , there is a little boy would hit her on her face. According to the boy's grandma,the boy not like hazel to sing. Not because they are far on the slide, I would block the boy's hand before hitting on hazel's face.
She is too nice that not even crying or hitting back.
After we are home, I keep on teaching her to push away other's hand as avoiding hitting from others.
Then, i just realize how nice if she can know some aikido. Not attacking others but protecting herself!
Saturday, December 15, 2007
Cleaning Cleaning & Cleaning
This month would be helping cleaning the parents' house. Hurting my back and hands.
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
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