Careful and Considerate

I like hazel cares about the surroundings (especially me !).
When we use one umbrella, she would look if i am in the umbrella or not.
And she would ask if I have fully cover under the umbrella.

Hazel likes to ask me what am I doing the whole day in the morning on the way to the school or after the school.
Not sure why she is interesting to know but it seems to be a sweet thought.

Like and Love

I train myself not losing the temper to hazel but not her dad.
Hazel's dad likes to yell at her making hazel listening to him.
Hazel hates her dad yelling at her loud which scares her to crying.
Later, she makes the announcement to her dad.

Hazel: "I don't like you. I love you!"

I think what her meaning is she doesn't like the way her dad does but that doesnot change her love to her dad.
As I tell her many times. I love her no matter if she is doing good or bad.
I love you forever and ever.

Reading

*真正有適應力的孩子是有能力去處理她所面臨的各式各樣狀況，包括學業
*真正的競爭力在那些必須花常久時間慢慢培養出來的內在人格特質。
*一個有自信的孩子，是不怕跟別人不一樣，可以穩穩照著自己的步行伐成長。
*教育應該是有彈性、會自我要求、懂得思考、知道用什麼方法可以達到自己期望的效果的孩子。
*關於人生，唯有自己經歷、體驗，才能真正內化成自己的一部份。
*eng是個應用工具而已，你談話沒深度，才是不能讓外國人停下來聽你講話的主因。光背一些生活用不上的。不能只說人家的語言，得花更多心思去深究使用這些語言的人的文化意涵和他們的想法、風土民情。
*有生活能力（非學科知識），才有應付各種生活狀況的智慧；有生活品味才能生活升級。有了這些才能談＂競爭力＂。
*課程安排分 -＞
1）學校課業 ： 作業 & 課外延伸讀物
2）生活學習：閱讀、運動、家事、手作、英文、戶外教學
*工作會牽涉到現實與理想、妥協與堅持、無奈與接受。而一個人對工作的態度，更會左右她將來在職場上的成敗。

Lessons from Hazel

10/3
Hazel says " I got to think over how could i earn lots money!". I think and assume hazel just copies what her daddy says~

10/4
Monday, the PE teacher asks girls to wear pants not skirts.
I try to put a skirt on hazel with a tight pant inside. Hazel not likes the idea because she likes to listen to what the teacher says no skirt eventhough i try to explain to her that there is a tight pant under the skirt that she is not wearing the skirt but also the pant.However, I am so angry and leave the bedroom.
Later, hazel walks to me in the living room and explain nicely to me why she needs to do this.
At that time, i feel i am so childish that i loose my temper. I am glade hazel not like me so emotional but find the way to convince me the reason she needs to wear pants.

Sweet Talk

*Hazel: Mom, I don't want go out but staying home on the Moon Festival. I would like to huge daddy the whole day.

*Hazel: Mom, I am so happy that i don't need to go to the school. I could be with you the whole day.

*Mom: Hazel, please help me taking this to the dinning table.
Hazel: Mom, i don't want to leave you. (at the time she talks and also takes the thing to the dinning table.)

Our Morning

Mommy enjoys the time taking you to the school in the morning.

Holding your hand and singing silly song to you on the way.

It is our special moment just mommy and daughter.
We walk under the sunshine and feel the breeze on our face.

(OS. How come my hand holding you is so dark!)

Sweet Talk

Recently hazel starts to say something like " Mom, I love you. You are so beautiful so cute!".
Actually she never shows her affection before. Maybe because I am always with her talking care of her.
Since she goes to the kindergarden, she would tells me she miss me.
Even it is just a minute. Better than nothing.

The Old Times

After picking her up from the kindergarden, she tells me that we can have dinner with other mothers and kids like the old times at the english class.
Hazel: "Mom, we can have dinner with those mothers. You can talk with them."
Mom: "How about the fathers? I think they need to have dinner with their fathers."
Hazel:" Don't we have the class at night that i can meet xxx?"

Days ago , on the bed ready to sleep
Hazel:" Mom, what is eden doing? I have not seeing him a while."
" PJ and Eden are my good friends before."

Too Happy to Cry

3/11 night, Hazel find something on the door.
Hazel: "Mom, what is this?"
Mom: "^%(&^*()&"
Hazel: "Real! "
"I am so happy that i almost feel like crying~"

I never expect to hear such dramatic play from her. It is cute.

Confessions of A Shopaholic

Mother: "Why you buy things with the grandma again?"
Daughter: "Grandma shows me the beautiful bag on the shelf."
"It is so beautiful that i have to have it. "
"Otherwise, i would never see such a beautiful bag again!"
Mother:" What kind of excuse it is? They are all beautiful."

Funny Mommy

2/1
Hazel likes to talk her mind with me when we lie on the bed at night. She say she likes me playing and helping her and her classmates as a volunteer on the day of the ballet dance.
She asks me to play funny (搞笑) )with her on the bed.
Hazel: Mommy, I like you play the funny face and motion.
You are a funny mommy ~(搞笑媽媽).
Mother: Mmmm...£@%*&
Hazel: I would like to be a funny mommy like you when I become a mother.
Mother :(OS. Is that a commendation?)

Coincident Encounter 好巧

Sometime we would bump into hazel's classmates on the street.
好巧what a coincident....bla blabla......
Hazel would ask me what is 好巧 means? We just meet without making the appointment.

somehow PJ's Mom is the one we meets the most any place can be.
After the ballet, on our way back to the grandparents' house we met PJ's Mother haveing the dinner with PJ and Henna. It should be the third times. We both feel

I would marry Eden

Hazel is a kind of girl keeping things in mind.防禦率低＋攻擊性弱
As a mother, it hurts to see her gets any hurt from boys. I wonder if she thinks it is just playing. So, she would say "it is ok 沒關係“ when i ask her afterward. Idealy,she should ask for help or stop them with some action on the spot. Because it might be dangerouse what if someone hits her eyes, ears, or else.
Days ago, I worry much that I tell her the husband(man) should be a person cannot be violent to the wife(woman). You should find your husband just like your daddy. (OS.: Hopfully you can find someone better than your father.)
Days goes by, she tells me she would marry Eden. At the time I am wondering why. She tells me Eden is not violent. In this case, she like Eden marry her. It is quite funny to see my teaching leads to her decision.
There still a long way to go for the teaching.