Magazine Reading

http://mag.udn.com/mag/newsstand/storypage.jsp?f_ART_ID=17522
http://mag.udn.com/mag/newsstand/storypage.jsp?f_ART_ID=17515
Actually most articles in 動腦 are worth reading.
http://www.emba.com.tw/emba/recentrelease/singlearticle.asp?期數=186&編號=5

Learn to talk?

Hazel like to talk to us eventhough we don't know what that meant.
She tried to lean what her mouth could do except for drinking milk.
Staring at people who is talking really make her exciting.
She like to play and talk till 1 am when fred fed her again.
Sleep in the middle of drinking.

Important Note

Children with speech delays are often found to have used a pacificer regularly after the age of 8 months.

What article say

http://www.babycenter.com/expert/baby/babybehavior/3446.html
Question: If I lavish too much love and attention on my baby son, will I spoil him?Answer: Contrary to what you may have heard, you can't spoil a young baby. It's your job to respond to your baby's needs, which he often makes known through crying. Your responsive love is the measure your baby uses to gauge his worth, so your love and attention are exactly what he needs to thrive. You won't spoil your baby by gratifying his wishes. You won't make him hopelessly self-centered or unable to postpone gratification simply by picking him up when he's unhappy.
In fact, once your child is certain of your unconditional wish to respond to him, his all-encompassing need for your focused attention will most likely decrease, not increase. When you try to make him as happy as possible and soothe his cries, you sustain his inborn optimism and give him an inner sense of well-being rich enough to share with others. Your child will find that life doesn't always give him what he wants, but he should always be able to depend on a positive, loving response from you."Spoiled" children behave in ways that antagonize adults because they've become manipulative; they've learned to use "negative" behavior as a tool for getting what they want. Your child is not capable of this kind of manipulation (crying to get you to give him another cookie, for example) until he's at least 6 months old. You may have been told that your crying baby is trying to manipulate you, but scientific research has shown that your infant has no wily motives and that his crying is not a calculated act. If your baby cries, he needs your assistance. You may not always be able to comfort him, but he will feel your love when you try.You are the source of your child's greatest joy. When you freely supply your loving attention, you give him a storehouse of well being that will last a lifetime. You're not spoiling him; you're making him strong and resilient for all that lies ahead.

People not see often. -> Hazel cries.

Hazel would cry whenever she meet people not see often.
She cried and looked at her aunt the same time.
We all wonder if she is so scared at new people why she still looks at them?
It is a challenge to take her back to Lu-Kong such a strange place with many strangers.
(PS. Hazel woke up at 3 am this mornning. Headache!!)

Interesting Blog

http://www.wretch.cc/blog/cwwany&article_id=2953383
By accident I found there is a queen of Blog. She even has published the articles as a book.
Her news were written in the 今週刊.

"Price is what you paid. Value is what you get."

http://pjhuang.net/2005/02/blog-post_23.html

Hazel, pls don't cry~

After one hour sleep, hazel started crying.
I could remenber it is around 11pm.
For the two hours crying, hazel's dad really lost his temper.
Since it had been four hours from last milk feeding, I made the milk around 1am.
At last, she fell asleep during drinking milk.
How to train Hazel not cry for sleeping?

Ready to hold the milk herself

Hazel's Dad @ weekend

Mommy & Daddy, I am not sleepy.

It is really a tough night that Hazel not likes to sleepy.
She woke up for every 30 mins.
We should not allow her sleeping before the real night sleep.
I was really piss off.
This might be the sign that i am not ready to stay at home taking care of her alone.

Pix last night

Some Inspiring articles, today

http://www.kleinerfisch.com/story/index.htm

New Coat

Some people said Hazel looks quite smart in the picture.
I shall have no doubt on it.

Picture Gallery

Pretending walking & grimace

I love Gramma

Hazel likes to lean on gramma's chest and falls sleep.
Don't know why she used to close eyes crying bofore falling sleep.

Hazel doesn't want to leave the parents?

This morning, i picture hazel in the carry bad in front of nanny's house.
She looks sad~

Recoving from the Cold

Hazel is not coughting now.
However, i miss the time she felt sleepy at night coz of the medicine.
Yesterday, she made noise and cried for 2 hours before she fall sleep at 00:00.
Also, she woke up at 5pm that we have to give her milk.
Hope not again~

Hazel's Playing Mat

New Clothes from MITSUKOSHI

Gimm New Friend - Talking Dragon

Black Timberland Top

2nd cold in life (Coughing a lots~)

Yesterday, I took the baby to the hospital for her bad cold.
Hazel is coughing and has stuffy nose.
The cold is different from the one she got before.
Hazel doesn't feel well that cry lots.
She scratchs her nose to stop the unconfortable.
However, that doesn't help but makig her nose so red.
Maybe even more unconfortable.
I also feel little unconfortable coz of the cold.
We all wonder if the cold is passed from grandpa who got bad cold last week.
It is really improtant to take care of the baby since she doesn't have immunity to protect herself.

Gimm & Bear

Vedio last week

Laugh like an adult
http://mikecorp.myweb.hinet.net/hazel81/DSCF6658.AVI
Screaming lover
http://mikecorp.myweb.hinet.net/hazel81/DSCF6675.AVI

Gimm & Gimm's Dad

Gimm Dad laugh Gimm laugh

Why they cannot laugh together?

A good night sleep

Hazel slept from 10pm to another day mornning 5:30.
It has been a while not able to sleep well between 00:00 and 04:00.
Thanks to mumm playing with her keep her awake before sleep.

Pants Magice

Voss's wife told me a trick to have the baby slept over night not day.
Take one hazel's pant and put on her neck for everynight till she able to adjust the time.
Better than nothing!

Sleep ove "Day"??

We are having the problem she sleeps over "day" not "night".
I am really like a candle burning two heads work and after work now.
Both works I could not do well.
This morning, we work up late again coz she is so energetic at night and looks for others attention. And she is so sleepy not open the eyes when i send her to nanny's house.
Maybe it is really hard to raise a "smart" baby.

(PS. Hazel met Yifu and Chris at SoGo this sunday afternoon. She cried hard in front of them coz she likes to sleep "at day time".)

4 Months Health Check & Injection

Weight: 7.3kgs (<90%)
Height: 65cm (>90%)
She only cried in injection and not cryied when it was done.
Hazel is a healthy and brave.

I ask the doctor if she is too chubby but she doesn't think so.
The doctor thinks she still can eat more.
I could not lose weights and how can i ask my hazel to!
It is the problem of gene.

Poncho

Many-sided Baby

Bad girl continuing...

Hazel is not sleep whenever she finishs the milk around 11pm..
11:20 ~2:20 play & cry &amp; cry hard & cray even harder
This mornning we even slept over till 7:45am because of broken sleep.
And, I told nanny about her bad habit in not sleep at night when I send hazel to her house.
The funny thing that i heard nanny talked to hazel "為什麼在這裡都會睡,在那裡就不睡?你都在這裡睡阿~" on my way out nanny's apartment.
It is really heart breaking to hear that.
Why. why..why?
I don't like it at all.

Fred said he would talk about the issue with nanny tonight when he pick up hazel.
Hope so~

Bad Girl + Still not able to turn the body over

Hazel had tried to turn the body over but failed last night.
It is a good try if her another arm is not stop there.
I found it is hard to deal with her around 11:00pm. ~2:00am..
Somehow she just like to play and talk around that period of time.
It really makes me angry and like to know how to put her to sleep.

This mornning, the earthquake didn't wake Hazel up.
I wonder actually she is quite enjoying in the shacking.

Living Mall 京華城

It became a training to show Hazel around.
Living Mall should be nice to take her for a walk since the place is big and not crowded.
However, I don't think it is conveient and nothing much to see.
Again, we asked Startbucks for hot water to making the milk.
It is nice to hear people saying Hazel is vary cute and beautiful in the mall.

Not knowing why, Hazel cried so hard in the taxi.
That might be another task we need to train Hazel except for mall.

Beauty of East Undergourd Mall

東區地下街之花 ?
This weekend, we all decide to take Hazel out seeing the outside world.
She scared to have grandpa and grandma to hold but not playing with her.
We had lunch box at the East Undergourd Mall and show her around.
It's quite nice to have Starbucks around because we can ask hot water to make the milk.
Hazel didn't afraid of being held by grandpa and grandma when we back to our house.
Finally~
She had a pretty good sleep at night from 11:00pm.~8:30am..

Also, Chris had met Hazel in front of SOGO dep.

5 hours sleep

Still, sleeping problem.
When could I have a complete sleep at night!!!
Sleepy (at work 8:50am)

Tough work for a tough nut

Hazel is a tought nut.
It is a tought work to put her sleeping between 22:00~01:00.
Too energetic in playing , talking , screaming, and crying.

Dear Hazel Please~

Hazel didn't sleep at night these days.
I reallly felt disappointed at her not sleep over night.
Also, her crying sounds like screaming.
My dear Hazel ...Please be nice~

(P.S. Nanny siad Hazel knows who is taking care of her now. Another kind of difficult period is coming.)

Bum Bum~

Hazel gets a pretty hip.

Full Round~

Hazel Xmas Tree

Recognize the Family

Hazel cries so hard when others hold her except for the parents.
We all wonder if Hazel can see and recognize people. Since she has not seen grandma and grandpa for couples of days, she cries when grandma holds her. Maybe fred and I should show her vedio or pictures of people to recognize the family.
It is funny for me to introdue her everyone when i hold her in my arms.
However, she has no problem held in others arms at the end.

Baby is changing everyday~

Sleepless (cont.) 2nd training day

It is really tiring watching baby at midnight and keep awake on day working.
Somehow fred not able to put Hazel to sleep for 1 hour from 11 o'clock milk feeding. She don't like to have the teat (pacifier).
I hold the baby over to sleep with me in the main bedroom. The 2nd training day stars....
Hazel makes noise around 4 o'clock.
Action-> give her teat to make her sleep
Hazel cryies little bit around 6 o'clock
Action->end of training giving her milk

Go back to sleep~
We all wake up late around 8:10.
Score: 88

Sleepless (cont.) 1st training day

I still not able to fall sleep or sleep deep today.
Depression still~

Fred is sick for continue days of midnight shift in baby feeding.
I decide to take the turn and also take the chance training the baby sleeping over night since i am sleepless.
Eventhough Hazel doesn't wake up, she keeps on moving head and hands.
Unbear seeing her sleep not well, I feed her by 5:30am.
My training repots 00:30~5:30 five hours thirty minutes sleep.

My idea is 7~8 hours sleep.
In this case, i only scores 68.

Tomorrow, i should train her sleep longer.
兒女,是上帝的產業, 屬於神, 只有神知道孩子的未來, 父母只是管家

(P.S. I have done in reading Chris's book.)

Sleepless

xxx
xxxxx
xxxxxx xxxxxxxx
Too angry & too many things in mind...cannot sleep

Complain Tearfully

http://mikecorp.myweb.hinet.net/hazel81/DSCF6547.AVI
愛碎碎唸的小金 (哭訴中)

天下父母心

I really cannot tolerate any more.
There are many things i have buried in mind.
Let me starting with...
如何訓練一個有手有腳的子女,而非出一張嘴巴
近日又聽到有"人",工作不順. 依我對此人的了解 (曾一起上課2個月)
她總是怨人不好,每個人在工作上都有起伏,工作上沒有人需要服伺你,沒有惡人, 自己不要成為他人眼中的惡人就好了。
在任何工作中都瞞怨別人的不是,做不高興就不做了. 一個工作又換一個, 要不是在她的生活中沒壓力,哪能說做就不做. 她爸罵她也不是沒理由,因為他愛他的女兒,唯有訓練她成長,不因一點挫折就在家依賴他人而生活. 她換這麼多工作,都做不久,是不是該自我檢討?
在這社會上,多少人會慶幸她所擁有的,而她卻不知努力。

常想到fred所說,父母親供他唸書畢業,他覺得父母親已經很偉大了. 至今也不敢讓母親知道任何生活中的不順遂. 而今因該好好奉養父母.。

已經長大了,應要學習如何在逆境中成長. 當你一直保護子女,只會讓他有逃避的機會與理由. 什麼事都幫她做好,她不知什麼事都要辛苦付出,而不是都已做好撿現成。 當然可笑臉迎人, 但深不知都是別人在後面為她辛苦付出的代價。

想到這裡,誰工作沒心酸處,要不是為生活與不讓長輩操心, 老娘早在公司裡罵人後走人! 難道要回家哭訴, 然後看家人會不會說 ""好了, 她們都不好. 不想做就不要做. 反正長輩有錢, 讓你靠一輩子都不用看人臉色, 而給盡人臉色看"" 。

心想到這, 為何自己年邁60的母親還要替她擔心難過, 要年邁65的父親去幫她辦護照買機票, 難道她沒手腳嗎? 工作半天也有時間自己去辦吧!!

又想到之前她在同學面前談論媳婦的工作, 一副自然模樣說出 ""吃飽飯,還要洗碗, 不是很可憐"
真是xxx, 把我當洗碗機? 不煮飯也不洗晚, 工作不高興就在家待。

產後一直不舒服..小金的媽..我真的生氣了!!!!! 她說我們不是一家人,我也非常同意. 只是想不到她竟然會如此說出口.... 那她為何要折磨我父母, 要幫她......

Task & Goal

Due to no direction at work, the empty feeling warns me to set some goals in life.

1.) Hazel could able to sleep over night.
2.) Back in shape enables to dress up nice.
3.) xxxxxxxx
4.) $$$ to buy xxx
5.) Win billions lottery

Just look at my list...

I am really "lost".

Abdominal Muscle

I can hold the milk~

Weird Posture

Piglet Disguise