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Tuesday, November 08, 2005

Book reading-

Stay where you are, with what you have, make something of it and never be satisfied.

創新常來自一個靈感,唯有付出行動的人才能帶來改變

長期耕耘不是簡單的事,需要經歷時間的考驗,盼望是個信念,唯有真正付出行動,堅持到底的人,才能親嚐收穫的喜悅

學習放下自己的原則,做一個有彈性的人, 在不必堅持的地方,多給彼此空間,學習去包容並適度的表達自己感受

Parents' reading list

As parents, we all have responsibity in teaching our babies.
However, it is such an hard work.
More than providing food, it is more important to arouse the intelligence and teach how to live in the society.

1.) 怎樣激發寶寶智能 0-2歲的成長與學習:

孩子的認知組織(組織知識的方法)和認知功能(運用智力的方式),在學齡前已建立. 智力進行過程已建立 - 學習的態度,追根究底的精神,他去滿足好奇心的強烈慾望
儘早與有趣和刺激性環境互動,對腦發展有絕對衝擊,會增進學習能力

2.) 因材施教 - 從出生的第一天開始

氣質

活動量/規律性/趨避性/適應度/反應強度/情緒注意力/分散度/反應閥/堅持度
好飼養/磨娘精/慢吞吞型/中間偏向好養/中間偏向難養

學習動機

藥物: T.L.C. (Tender Lovely Care)

每個小孩是不一樣的,不是強迫成為你喜歡的樣子,幫助他走上對(他)適合的路

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※知識以一循序的方式藉由CEO活動來發展: Construct (to know the object) / Expend (their knowledge by relating other known)/ Own (exercise what they know to own the knowledge)

※引人興趣之過程;智力發展之四要素
- 成熟: 與生具備之能力,環境在決定能力會表現出什方向及達何程。度提供【適合其現階段】的多樣化環境,充實其成長提供經驗成長; 不適合能力程度,無窮止境之挫折。(經驗- 身體的/社會的)
- 身體的經驗:一個人與身體環境之互動,透過經驗行成建立科學與邏輯數理的知識,ex. 用一個杯敲一個碗,發現杯子特質,形狀透明度發出聲音或體重質感,用身體之互動來為自己組購知識,即使不正確,會一再琢磨試驗而改正過來. 藉主動操作物體,發現環境中之規則及對她做動作時的影響
ex.給在嬰兒床中BB,垂直欄杆將拿不到,需換方向.為推理之過程行成未來數理觀念
- 社會性的傳遞轉移:經由文化(藝術.音樂.語言與教育)的管道,理解社會性的規則與模式
- 自我的調整:BB有內在能力,促朝更高致力適應性發展。被激發去達到更高明的知,人類心智會自行調整. ex. 大海不是大游泳池,知被挑戰成衝擊,被迫創造出區分。在沙灘玩耍發現海水是鹹的,基底是砂等.玩耍方式去分辨差異。

平衡機制如一調節器,調節器會將物體摸索來之概念,與已知關聯起來。
自我挑整知過程,激發孩子去明白經驗帶給她的意義.不段的關聯來明白之間知區別。
糾正BB她仍維持舊有的行為模式,他需要多一點時間去弄清楚觀念. 若糾正造成迷惑與驚訝,表示他已準備好學習新的觀念。你的糾正,造成【失調】

※ 儘早與一些有趣和刺激之環境互動,對腦的發展有絕對的衝擊,這會增進學習能力.
※ 閱讀技巧+數字技巧+特殊知識=智能
※ 智能之母是動作不是言語,為了去認知,都必須行動
※ 得到刺激之變化性是心智發展決定性要素,過多刺激會造成情緒傷害
※ 去追根究底,求證及拒絕第一個想法的能力,是我們要灌輸孩子與社會
※ 【感官-運動】六個階段:
0-1m
1-4m
4-8m 複製偶然造成且發現有意思的行為。激發其行為的理由為1.)自己以外之物體2.)此動作是重複的
8-12m強化過去學習並應用於新的情形。很多學習收穫被融會貫通,始有（方法-結果）關係的觀念,非偶然選擇方法去完成先設立的目標
喜歡躲貓貓遊戲/模仿能力進步
12-18m系統性修改一個動作,以便發現動作之改變如何影響結果.
試驗與實驗來解決問題
從接觸.看.聽.聞和嚐才知道的認知系統中跳出,可透過想像知道事情
18-24m象徵系統已發展好,不會有前一階段實驗錯誤情形,可在心理想出一解決方法,在解決他.
面對問題時,只一點點或根本沒身體之探索。以直覺及自我為中心(學齡前兒童的思想)
4-8M階段:

Monday, November 07, 2005

Thanks to Chris

I am quite surprised chris giving me this book-愛呆我家連家恩.
To me, i am a person don't like reading book.
However, i have changed my interest to read after MBA study.
People do change by different period in life.

By reading this book, i am looking forward to get some answers to my life.

當一個人懷抱夢想,並相信可以成就時,幸運之神便悄悄降臨,為我們種植澆灌此夢想的種子,奇蹟將隨著夢想而發生.

Sunday, November 06, 2005

Hasmore LTD.

Thumb delicious?

Hazel has enter the period of "eating thumb".
She would use her hand push away the pacifier to put her whole fist into her mouth.

Wednesday, November 02, 2005

Flu forever

Hazel and I almost recover from the cold.
However, Hazel's dad stars getting sore throat.

For the midnight feeding, Hazel fell asleep on my arms right after meals.
What a accomplishment!
I am really gratified at Hazel satisfaction with my feeding service.

(Hazel is good at erecting herself to full height. No wonder nanny asked me how old is Hazel. Coz of the excellent job on straigh her body for long time.)

Monday, October 31, 2005

Anniversary & 3 months old

(Cebu is not a fun place.)

Yesterday, it was fred and I anniversary day.
Today, Hazel is three months old.
Nothing happens but we all get better from the cold.

I have not held Hazel for couples days.
And I found she is not that heavy on the way to nanny's place this mornning.

Baby in the distance

It is really sad that i cannot hug my baby these days.
However, it is safer to keep the distance from getting mine bad cold.

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Doctor said

Hazel got lots of sputum in the throat.
The medicine must not taste good.
She swallowed it with crying out loud and painful.

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Go Go Go

Me and Hazel got a cold these days.
She didn't sleep well last night coz of the stuffy nose and cough.
Hazel cried so much at night.
I really feel sorry seeing her fighting with the virus.

Looking forward her to get well as before.

Monday, October 24, 2005

Something about nanny

There must be somthing wrong between me and the nanny.
It seems to be hard to communicate with her for my suggestion.
As a experience nanny, she might have her own idea of taking care of baby.
To the new mommy, she seems not belive in my suggestion.

To be honest, I really feel depressed.

Sunday, October 23, 2005

1st cold in life

Hazel got a running nose?
Or have a stuffed-up nose?

She didn't have good appetite. There are couple of meals only 60~100ml.
Usually she could drink up 150ml.
Hope this is not her 1st cold in life.

Friday, October 21, 2005

Selection of the week

Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Talk Away

http://mikecorp.myweb.hinet.net/hazel81/hazel10-20-2005.AVI

Who is moving my baby!

Hazel was not sleeping till 00:30 with arms sweeping.
Finally, I was so tired that I left her crying in the bedroom and I laid down on the sofa in the living room.
Few minutes after, her crying was little different.
As a mother instinct, i check her in the bedroom and not found her on the bed.
However, i heard the crying sound still.
Later,I found her face down crying on the floor by the bed.

I was shock!

Beckham Hair Style

Unpack Hazel

It is always fun to unpack Hazel on the sofa after we pick her up from nanny's house.

As kids, we unpack the present seeing anything intersting in the box.
For us, we unpack Hazel seeing how she is wrapped in the blanket.

Hazel looks like solider standing straght with both arms close to the body.
She likes raising her arms up. So, it is fun to see her submiting to nanny's packing.