Mobile Crazy

What is richard's number? / yeah~ / Never mind.

This weekend, hazel like to put everything on her ear pretending talking on the phone. The funny thing is she really can talk long on the phone just like real call.
Maybe she really connect with ET.

@ MRT

Pray for "PEACE"?

What is hazel thinking about when she looks out the window? What's in her little mind?

媽咪的愛奴

折衣服? / 洗衣服?

Surfing on Blogs

「錢可以再賺，可是小孩的童年只有一次，很重要。」

Reading: Pampered Child Syndrome

How to end spoilt brat syndrome?
如今，過多的愛、不當的愛，卻讓孩子們失去競爭力，甚至產生負向性格。
以下六個數據，分別來自二○○一年哈佛大學的研究、二○○一年CNN及《時代》雜誌聯合進行的民調、二○○二年美國非營利公共意見研究團體Public Agenda的調查：
一、)八○％的人，都認為今天的孩子比十年或十五年前被寵壞了。
二、)三分之二的父母承認自己的孩子被寵壞了。
三、)七五％的人認為，現在小孩比以前做更少的家事。
四、)只有九％的成人認為，他們在公共場所看到的孩子「對成人有所尊重」。
五、)三分之一以上的老師，因為「無法忍受」學生的行為，認真的考慮離開教職，或他們知道有人因此離職。
六、)也是最驚人的數據，一九八四年時，孩童可以影響父母達五百億美元的消費。到了二○○一年，這個數字達到三千億美元。更進一步推論，父母給孩子的物質享受，比上一個世代整整成長了五倍！（編按：這段期間兒童人口數僅成長一五％）
這些數據共同指出一個現象：孩子對父母的控制權越來越大，但其被寵壞的現象也越來越嚴重。五倍的愛，五倍的物質，孩子消化得了嗎？

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高雄長庚醫院兒童心智科主任周文君分析，孩子在社會互動中，最需要的就是「妥協、分享、互動」三種特質，被溺愛的孩子，容易喪失學習這些特質和演練的機會，就容易自我中心。

幼稚園，是社會情境的第一關，被溺愛的孩子因為不具上述三種特質，容易與同儕出現爭執，隨著時間長大，在人際交往上就會產生挫折感。這個挫折感緊接著會帶來焦慮、憂鬱、拒學，然後產生更多的情緒問題，甚至出現自殺、攻擊性的行為。此外，被放任的孩子，由於將「獲得東西」視為理所當然，通病就是「等不得」，當「無法獲得」的情境出現，就容易出現犯罪行為。

忠告：「易開罐的愛」只會害了孩子
然而，溺愛的問題不在於愛多、愛少，而在於「怎麼愛」。愛的方法正確，孩子的行為加乘；愛的方法不正確，錯誤的行為也更嚴重。
這樣的狀況你應該不陌生，或者，你應該見過：全家吃飯時，父母因為愛孩子，總是主動幫孩子夾菜，將最好的菜留給孩子，等到孩子吃不下，父母才吃下剩餘的菜。久而久之，孩子理所當然以為，「我本來就該吃最好吃的菜」。有一天，當他看到愛吃的食物，問也不問，一口氣全盤吃光，不管其他人是否取用時，你才發現，原來你的愛給錯了方式！
小孩沒有感恩心，只曉得占有，不曉得失去的滋味。
周文君分析，成功的愛，孩子不僅感受到父母的用心，還會回頭反問母親要不要吃一口，而不是全部吃完。這樣的愛，就沒有多餘的問題。
美國權威心理學家、哈佛大學教授羅伯．寇爾斯（Robert Coles）曾對富家子弟進行研究，他指出這些孩子的問題：「儘管擁有財富及特權，可是他們依然不快樂、不滿足。所有的錢財、玩具、旅遊，全都不請自來。他們已擁有許多，還想更多，得到後卻沒有很大的滿足感，只是生出更多的欲望。在這表象之下，充滿著糾結不去的無用感。」
同樣的，因為不虞匱乏，千禧之子也失去努力的動機、生命的熱忱。
也如同美國心理學教授索羅門．史奇莫（Solomon Schimmel）形容希臘諸神，後來為何變成易怒的一群：「正因為他們要什麼有什麼，有任何願望可以馬上實現，就變得不再有希望。希望，是建立在有未實現的理想、有需要花費力氣才能滿足的需要上。由於不需要希望而失去希望，神也會變得煩躁。」
愛孩子，就別讓你的愛，變成「易開罐的愛」：廉價、易開、隨取隨有。收回你的一隻手吧！

After the Gather...

After the gathering I am happy to see;
1.) Hazel is easy to be happy not because of others but herself.
2.) And she like to discover new things not afraid of strangers.
3.) Hazel would take the initiative in making acquaintances.
The adverse, most kids not looks happy most of the time and not see "innocence".
Not like to share or hurt others.....
Maybe parents spoiled their children and not teach but just saying "you cannot do that".
How children would know what is right thing and why cannnot do that?

However, I also realize how much hazel would love to play with other kids and how lonely would she be in the future. As the father said, he would consider to have second child when his job is getting stable. It is not good to have our childs living in the stress also.

Hazel is a happy girl who always smile.

(Hi! my name is hazel / what are you doing?/ Let me play your toys,please.)

9/10 We went to see one of my classmate because his baby girl is one month old.
It is fun to see everyone getting together and many kids around (but also vary noisy).

Eveyone all said Hazel is always carrying a smile. She shall be an optimist.

Hope hazel would continue behavior so since most of kids not smile all the time.

A Mid-Night Run

We were not notiuced an electric power cut between 0:00 to 6:00 at 9/9.
And hazel not bore the no airconditioner room and the darkness kept on cring.
Finally we decided to take a taxi to parents' house to sleep.
Since hazel slept at diffent place, she not like to sleep (also, we forgot the bring the pillow over).
It is really a difficult night. None of us have a good sleep at night and another day time.

Chinese New Year, ça va pas?

Till Moon Festival or Chinese New Year?
More or Less, there is no correct answer.
Never be enough and ever feel enough.
1+1>2 ?

Hi Bartender, Give Me One~

Something bother you, hazel?
吧台買醉?

Not drink any alcohol, just water in the yellow learning bottle.
It is just a place to keep her busy.

Shopping Queen

Hazel love to manage her clothes. Taking out from the bag and put those everywhere.
Like a kid openning all her presents.
If she really would become a desiner, it is not bad to familar her "money making tools" 生財工具.

Designer with Designers' Clothes

Since hazel took ruler and spring onion at 8 moths old, people said she would be a "smart" designer. Before being one good designer, her grandma gets her designers' clothes.
以後要好好孝順外婆喔!!

No Soft but Hard

I was upset about hazel not eating the congee but crying a lots. She is hunger but just not like to have even one spoon of the congee. Due to the work, I felt tired and like to watch the TV alone. At that moment, I really cannot do anything but angry myself.
At last, hazel stop crying by having milk.
This mornning nanny mentioned hazel not like to eat those congee but like somthing hard because she is having more teeth now. 真是水落石出!

The Limit

孰可忍孰不可忍!! Don't say no to "Income"!

No Eating ; No Eating Myself

Hazel like to try to eat by herself.
If you like to feed her....., she would be really angry and not eat.
Leaning itself is a good thing. However, the cleaning is the difficult part.

For a While not~

It has been a while for hazel sleep over night without crying and waking up in the middle of night. Good!
Fred found it might be the reason that i have her sleeped on the banket. She would cry and wake up at the middle of night coz of too"Hot".
Since we have the blanket taken away, hazel sleep over night.
Hope so~

Getting not Shy to Strangers

On the street, there are always people like play with hazel. Before, she would like to cry and run to us. Now, she like to play with strangers.
Got to watch out..otherwise, 280K would just be gone on the street.
*Notes: News said 280K is the price for baby girl.

Get Over and Move On?

Think twice!!! Why not CLY?

New Toy- Singing Car

The car would sing and move itself. When the car touch object, it would auto turn to another side to run. Every few minutes, the car side and back door would open. Actually , this toy is quite noisy since the song singing sounds like 搖頭音樂.

Family Meeting

After many discussion and finance calculating, fred and I have made an agreeement for my action plan next month.
Hazel cannot speak, otherwise we would also ask her comment on it.
Befoer hazel 18 years old, all her comments would just be reference.
負擔加重! 拔拔辛苦囉~

Happy & Happiness

What is the Happy & Happiness?
I would like to teach hazel what is happy- appreciate what she has.
-When my family and people i care are healthy and happy, i feel happy.
-Happy is able to help others (not for others' personal pleasure).
-Happy is not how many i can ask but appreciate what i already have.
失("施")比受更有福 - 真是嫁對了 ?

Prefer Western Food?

Nanny has mentioned Hazel seems to like bread or western food more than chinese food. Is this the reason it is hard to feed her porridge? Hazel is interesting in any kind of food. It is easy to feed her our food in the restaurant.

Sunday- Grass & Pianist

Sunday-ShinChu & Tsing Hua University

Hot~ Hot~

Hazel really scares of water. When we take her close to the pool, she just like to cry.

Saturday-KuKong & TaiLe

Poor hazel not have a nice nape in the afternoon.
At last, I put her to sleep but bad-behaved niece making noise trying to wake her up.
In the evening, we went to a japanese restaurant. Hazel seems to be drunk by eating some dishes with rice wine. She just act like a drunk (vary energetic and crazy) when we back to sister-in-law's house.

Friday- Outdoor Hot Spring

Hazel is scared to go into the pool. What she is doing is watching us and enjoying her cookies. Some boys in the poor just said "the baby is only wearing diaper without swimming clothes".
Finally, Hazel is in the pool.

Friday- KuGuan 惠來

Check in two rooms at 惠來.
Hazel takes off clothes and walk from grandparents' room to our room.
Just take her to the room hot spring poor and star to cry~

Packing for the Trip

Yah~ we are going to have trip to Ku-Guan to enjoy hot spring.
Pack hazel , First~

Blog Commercialized?

看準了部落格的現在與未來，Google一連買下Urchin、MeasureMap等軟體組成強大的部落格分析軟體Google Analytics，供部落格主與未來的廣告商使用，裡面的分析已經複雜到了涵蓋Cost per click分析、關鍵字分析、A/B testing等

A Violinist

Mommy cannot afford a real violin. Play toy violin~
Last week, grandpa bring over a toy violin for hazel to experience such a expensive instrument.

88 Father's Day

Feeding Grandpa? Nice Baby~

Sleep Ceremony

We would play the DVD- HBO classic Baby to her when she has milk before sleep.
Now, she would alone watch it quietly.
After finishing the DVD, she would almost feel like to sleep.

I got you!!

OMG~
Daddy got an affair?
Ha~ he just cannot help kissing his lovely daughter.

Hazel in Daddy's Eyes

Fred seldom takes pictures for hazel. Last night, he felt hazel is so cute from his angle. Then, I gave fred the camera to have some pictures.

Question?

現行稅法規定可以抵扣稅額的項目有「投資抵減稅額」、「重購自用住宅扣抵稅額」、「大陸地區已繳納所得稅可抵稅額」等三大項

New Toy-Ball Tent

Hazel is ecstatic over the new ball tent and enjoy playing alone inside the tent with toys and balls.
She is excited for the colorful tent.
It is convenient to see outside even in the tent.

News

Google獨占MySpace 微軟雅虎垂淚
Google公司同意，未來三年支付新聞公司（New Corp）旗下的福斯互動媒體（Fox Interactive Media）至少9億美元，成為知名社交網站MySpace.com的獨家網路搜尋與廣告服務供應商。
這個社交網站過去一年來人氣極旺。comScore Metrix表示，MySpace已快速躍升為全美第二繁忙的網站，約有1億個註冊用戶，僅次於雅虎的1.287億個。Fox主管則表示，現在人們離開MySpace的主要理由就是上Google網站搜尋，此一協議可讓MySpace用戶直接在網站鍵入查詢，造訪者停留愈久，廣告潛力愈強。
Chili's also has myspace page : http://www.myspace.com/chilis

Making Friends

Hazel's grandma and grandpa like to walk hazel at the "East Understeet Mall". The main reason is to have hazel met others kids. She love seeing other kids and running with them. But ..when other kids like playing with her , she got scared. In the pictures, there are two sisters (3yrs & 5 yrs).

Learning- Bowl & Spoon

In the restaurant, the server always prepare her plastic bowl and spoon. Hazel is learning to eat by herself. However, she would prefer to play instead of eating. If you leave rice in her bowl, you would see 麻糬 later in her bowl. Anyway..she is learning.

Wave Hands & Saying "Good-bye"

This week, whenever we send her to the nanny or pick up from nanny, she would wave hands with a big smile. surprisingly, she said "再見" to us in nanny's husband's arms. It is so cute to see her pick up things fast. That also means no bad habbit and words in front of her. She would copy from us immediately.

Health Check & Varicella Vaccine

8/5 Heath Check

Height: 79 cm (90%)

Weight: 10.5 kgs (75%)

Head: cm (90%)

a rash by neck caused of too hot!

Zara Baby

Uncle Richard got hazel 4 zara clothes!!!!
Seems those clothes's size are big enough till 2 years old.

(ps. right side pix is hazel's mon- 下輩子目標)

不急著吃棉花糖-棉花糖守則

*棉花糖守則 1 要預測一個人未來成不成功，能不能延遲享樂是很重要的指標。
*棉花糖守則 2 成功的人說話算話。
*棉花糖守則 3 不要一開始就把棉花糖吃掉。等待對的時機，這樣可以吃到更多棉花糖。
*棉花糖守則 4 凡事要從長遠來想。一塊錢的倍數累積三十天，會超過五億。
*棉花糖守則 5 要從別人身上得到你想要的，一定要讓別人想幫助你，並且信任你。要讓別人按照你的話去做，最好的辦法就是說服他們。
*棉花糖守則 6 成功看的不是你的過去或現在。當你願意開始去做別人不願意做的事時，就是成功的開始。
*棉花糖守則 7 目標＋熱情＋行動＝平靜

最後要記得：今天你所做的選擇，會在明天帶給你大大的收穫 只要，你別那麼急著……吃掉棉花糖！

Slide Show

Happy Birthday to You~

Many Face Motion & Gesture

Hey~ I didn't teach her to have this gesture!!!
在英國，這是髒話耶　！！！

Leaving~

Party over? I am leaving.

The new dress is kind of big because it is for 2 years old kid.

Party Time!

Before the Party

Mom~ Before the party, i like to have the cosmetics mask (俗稱面膜作臉).

Like this ...facing up

Ahi~ where is my mon? 人咧?

Birthday Party from Grandma and Grandpa

Two cakes?
One for me and how about another one?
Ans: for nanny's tomorrow

拍拍手~ 拿掉蠟燭啦, 透露年齡 !!

Hazel 2006.8.1

Happy Birthday to Hazel~ my little Leo!!!
My birthday gift for her is endless "love & care".
Plus two pants. (by chance, find the store in big promotion)

Grandma would get her a cake tonight.